there is a fairly definite idea of a separate deaf community, within the deaf community itself, (sorry for the tautology), pretty much based on the language BSL, although, like all communities, there isn't one voice, but a diversity of views and opinions. i was unaware of this until my deaf neighbours moved next door...they are lovely neighbours - the lady has been profoundly deaf from birth, and is unable to speak- ...her husband was also severely hearing impaired from birth, and as a child went to a special school for the deaf, where he was taught to lip-read, and is able to communicate vocally, with some speech impediment, and, much room for misunderstanding - lip reading has it's limitations. you can imagine that not being able to speak is very isolating, and Jill is only able to communicate properly with other deaf people - she has a good number of friends, made, i think, originally through the RNID club, the social hub of the community, and they can have good chinwags in their own expressive language, pretty essential for sanity, i think... George, on the other hand, has always worked and socialized in the world of hearing people, and although it is _far_ from unproblematic, he doesn't want to restrict himself to the deaf community quite in the same way that his wife does. she is much happier in that community, but on the other hand, she has her husband to mediate for her with the wider world, and she is heavily reliant on him...
it's not easy...
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